18 Qualities Every Alpha Woman Should Look For In A Boyfriend

Alpha Female is a strong , majestic female . She can
often be intimidating to those around her and isn’ t
afraid to ask for what she wants . She ’ s killing it in
her career and has a solid group of friends to rely
on.

There ’s nothing quite as brilliant as a woman with
confidence and ambition. She isn ’ t scared to put
people in their place should they do her dirty , nor is
she willing to put up with anyone else’ s sh*t . She
simply doesn’ t have the time.
A strong Alpha Woman needs a man who’ s her
equal, her partner, her greatest supporter. By
definition , you’ d think that she should want an Alpha
Male , but he can provide only passion, not
steadiness. She also doesn ’t get along with Beta
Males because they’ re too weak to keep her or
pique her interest.

So, who’ s right for the mighty Alpha Female ? What
kind of man can keep her grounded while still
challenging her to grow and be the best she can ?
May I introduce Type Z: a man who ’s equal parts
solid and charismatic. He’s her rock , her
foundation . He’s not intimidated by her successes
nor would he allow her to walk all over him. He’ s
true to himself and true to her .
An Alpha Woman knows what she needs to have a
sturdy partnership with a man who’ ll be her ally , her
confidant and her best friend.
These are 18 qualities every Alpha Female should
look for in a boyfriend :

1. He’s someone who can tease you and also be
teased.
He’d never be malicious or say something to hurt
your feelings, but he can give a joke just as well as
you can .
You know each other well enough to know when
you’ ve crossed the line , but your shared love of
sarcasm and your knowledge of each other’ s weak
spots make teasing fun — never threatening.

2. He challenges you.
He’s as strong as you are , but more subdued . He’ll
push you to be the best you can be and challenge
every decision you make — but you ’ ll love him for
it.
Life with him is always exciting and never ceases to
surprise you.

3. He doesn ’ t get jealous .
He’s confident enough to know that the mild
flirtations you have at a cocktail party and your
unyielding friendship with your work husband are
never a threat to your relationship.
He knows you ’ re his and never feels the need to
question you because your relationship was built on
a foundation of trust.

4. He isn ’t waiting on you, he has his own plans.
He has his own life and respects that you have
yours. He’ s never going to give you a hard time
about wanting to hit the club with your girls .
Instead, he encourages you to spend time with them
whenever you want to because he knows whom
you’ re coming home to.

5. He doesn ’ t air your dirty laundry .
He has your full trust, and you can tell each other
anything . You’ re not afraid your embarrassing
stories are going to come back to you when you
meet his family or when you meet his friends for
drinks.
What’ s said between the two of you stays between
the two of you. Well , except for your BFF ; she
knows everything from what he’ s got going on
downstairs to his latest promotion at work.

6. He knows how to deal with your bad moods .
He’s a source of comfort for you. You feel at ease
with him. When you ’ re angry, he somehow knows
how to deal with you with more grace than anyone
else.
Depending on how you’ re feeling , angsty and
emotional or overwhelmed and exhausted, he lets
you have your space and knows when to hold you
in his arms.

7. When he apologizes , he really means it.
If he ’ s done something wrong, he’ ll always be man
enough to admit it and tell you he ’s sorry . He’ s not
arrogant or pigheaded — he won’ t do something
sh*tty and turn the tables on you, and he won’ t hurt
your feelings and make you feel stupid for being
upset
He’s a man , not a boy — and a man always knows
when he needs to apologize.

8. He’s moving at the same speed you are .
Whether in his current career or his lofty life goals ,
he always seems to be moving at the same speed
you are . He knows what he wants and respects
what you want. He’s never pushy or demoralizing —
just steadily moving from one goal to the next with
a very bright future in sight.

9. He doesn ’ t belittle you, but he doesn ’ t put you on
pedestal either .
He’s slow and steady, but never a doormat. He
doesn’ t idolize you but doesn ’t make you feel
small . He treats you like the fierce woman you are .
He also likes to spoil you , but would never give you
everything you want.
He’ll always keep you guessing . He’s your partner,
not your provider . He’s there because he wants you,
not because he needs you.

10. He is someone who teaches , but never lectures .
The best partnerships are the ones in which both
people can learn from each other. He’ s a well of
knowledge and loves to provide you with new
information and insights on things he’ s passionate
about.
You learn from him in many ways, but you never feel
like he ’ s pushing you or judging you . You both
teach other lessons that make you better people
and better citizens of the world.

11. He makes you laugh.
If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her
do anything . - Marilyn Monroe
If he doesn ’ t make you laugh, you’ ll soon grow tired
of him. Laughter is one of the most important
qualities in a partner. Your shared love of sarcasm
and his sharp wit complement each other perfectly.

12. He’ ll call you out when you need to be called
out.
He’ll never fail to tell you how it is . He’ s not scared
to hurt your feelings, and he doesn ’ t tiptoe around
you, either . If you’ re acting like a raging b*tch or are
completely talking out of your a *s , you can bet your
a *s he ’ ll call you out on it.
He doesn ’ t let you get away with stupid bullsh*t, not
because he doesn ’ t care about you , but because he
doesn’ t want to be jerked around by those Alpha
Female ways.

13. He wants to be the wind beneath your wings .
He’s a stoic man : strong , independent and sure of
himself . He prefers to let you lead , but he’ s always
there to fully support you. He has no problem being
the background ; he ’ s there to be your strongest
supporter and your steadfast foundation . He loves
that you’ re popular because you ’ re a person he ’ s
very proud of.

14. He isn ’ t the life of the party , but is always there
if you need to be carried home.
He lets you be the social butterfly you naturally are .
He doesn ’ t mind your vibrancy or doesn ’ t feel
intimidated by your fiery , dynamic personality ;
instead, he embraces it. He’s also a protector .
He’ll pour you another drink , but take it away when
you’ ve had too much . He always takes care of you.

15. His opinions aren’ t irrational , they ’re backed up .
He reads a whole lot of books and stays informed
on current events so he can have well - rounded
opinions with factual bases. Being educated and
sound in his understanding of the world around him
is very important to him.

16. He knows when to drop it and when to address
it.
He’ll stand his ground when he knows he is right .
Though he ’ ll argue with you , he ’s not unwilling to
concede if it means ending a fight. You’ re strong -
willed , and he knows when a difference in opinion
or a questionable action is worth discussing or
whether it’ s better left alone.

17. He has dreams as big as yours .
He’s as career - focused as you are . You both
genuinely care about each other’ s endeavors . He
doesn’ t sit back and watch you achieve your dreams because he has passions and goals of his
own. You two are a true power couple.

18. He’ s a great listener , but also expects to be
heard .
He knows when to talk and he knows when to keep
his mouth shut . He quietly and patiently listens to
everything you have to say , but he expects you to
do the same for him.