Two days ago, actress Princess Chineke alleged that actress, Chrystabel Goddy attacked her on set and bit her so hard it tore her skin and thigh muscle right off.

Princess is a colleague whom I met on the set of a production. Out of respect to my contract, I shall refrain from naming the show. Despite her malicious and overbearing persona, I still tried to relate with her for purpose of the project that brought us together. I had complained about her untidy lifestyle and her troubles and even had to leave the room for another room when the original occupant had to leave for his home due to the fact that the hotel is noisy. On this day, the alternative room wasn't available to me and I had to put up with her in my room given to use to share. Prior to eventually sharing the room for the first time, I had told her that most times I get to relax after the day's job and activities later at night to respond to calls and text messages and that was just me prompting her out of courtesy and respect. Come on Linda, you have once shared a room with friends or sisters..If one isn't a bitter person, a phone call shouldn't offend you so much I mean especially if you can sleep in a hotel that has so much noise from the bar and she leaves the tv on! I turned it off the day I slept there.

So I was on the phone she was still awake laying her head and watching tv before she turned to sleep barely 5mins into her sleep, she wakes up yelling..i mean civil communication if honestly you're disturbed is fair enough but when I didn't respond, she turned on the music on her phone and to its loudest volume and put the phone right over my head, at this point I was so embarrassed. My friend who had called kept asking if everything was ok as he could hear her voice. I had to end the call. The following day I reported the issue.

Now , this day after the day's work. .We retired to our hotel and I only went downstairs to ask for help from the reception only for me to return to the room and she had moved to my side of the bed which we had agreed on that I stayed due to my phone calls and work. I write too and so I'm active on my phone hence my always busy mind. This is so much stress for me I've never been exposed in this way.

I asked her to please excuse me that I needed to lay my head after I had waited for her for about 15mins with my excuse for her been that she probably is going through messages she missed earlier unknown to me she'd had a fight upcoming. She responded bluntly saying that she's not moving from her spot. That it was hers before she gave it to me and I said exactly so it's no longer yours if you're not just a troublemaker. Princess is controlling and rude. She has a deep cut under her arm which she said was given to her by her cousin apparently this does tells how much of a problematic and incorrigible person she is. I have helped her to treat that deep cut and the production team bought her meds too. 

On her response, I called the production manager to explain again that she's about to start again. When I dropped the phone, she started raining abuses on me and my family. She abused my dad at which point I lost control, because I lost my dad only just recently and the wound is still fresh in my heart. I held her mouth to cover it and make her shut up. She attacked me..scratching my face, neck and tearing the shirt I had on. She bit me on both hands and used her teeth to cut my gold bracelet. Upon this a senior colleague came in and separated us but when asked what happened she wouldn't explain without trying to make it juicy and insulting my family. I hold family dearly. I am a private person and I respect people's families too. She inflicted more injuries on me she pulled my natural hair a wig or weave. My natural hair...I have them here. I was advised not to lose them. Her bites on me are here i can send you pictures. Its unfortunate that she's looking for sympathy in trying to tarnish my name. The injury she sustained was out of defence and I have since apologized. An apology which she refused to acknowledge. 

Regardless of the what had transpired, I still took the pain to apologise to her but apparently she's unforgiven and vengeful my only vengeance is this piece because God knows how to protect his own and I know that she intend to shame me bit it'd turn around for my fame. I won't be angry over the lesbian accusation. A clean heart fears none. I have never kissed a girl in my life. I would never think of going to blackmail an individual. Several folks have hurt me but life goes on. My consolation is that I've been on a few sets and there are folks who can attest to my conduct. However, I forgive her for this and I hold no grudge. I have apologised for the wound because I should have stayed I control and not get furious which is my first but we're humans and we all have our most stretched points. After a stressful day one doesn't need a troublemaker as a flat mate or roommate. I think that if my calls disturbed her as she claims she could ha e gotten herself a room as a big girl she had bragged to be. I don't complain about her calls. Even when she messes up the room, I quietly clean it and ensure the rest of the job is done by the housekeepers of the hotelSo coming out to seek sympathy is actually devilish. She almost killed me by pulling my hair and yet I apologised after I felt sad that I inflicted such pain. Every one who has worked with called to say it can't be me

This is what really happened.‎

We have been married for 10 years and have 3 kids. I trained her for her last 3 years in the university before we got married. I did all the spending for our marriage ceremony and gave her a Job also in the banking industry before she lost her job 3 years later during the melt down in the banking sector. She now working with a service provider company with a salary a little above =N=102,000.00 monthly.

I provide all that is needed to run the family without asking her for a penny till 9 months ago after I did a job with a government agency which my payment was delayed for 9 months. Before the delay of my payment, I take the responsibly of her parents up keep.

Within the stressful nine months for me, I told her we needed to put heads together for the up keep of the family. For the 1st time in our marriage, we both contributed for the house rent and also made her pay for the children school fees totaling =N= 162,000.00. All these didn’t go down well with her.
With time she started disrespecting me and even talks any how to me, she wakes up in the morning not greeting me, goes out not informing me and she constantly refusing sex. We are always having quarrels here & there and I had slapped her on two occasions out of extreme annoyance. Later I begged for forgiveness for slapping her.

I had sat her down on many occasions to talk; her issue is that she feels I’m not doing enough to provide for the house again and also not doing enough to getmy payments.  She told me if need be, let me borrow. She doesn’t like the fact that she is brings money. So she puts all kind of attitudes towards me. She kept telling her friends and family negative things about me. Her parents stop calling me because I no longer have to give them but the speck with her daily and never asked how I’m doing. I know these because I sit close to her when they call. They ask only about the kids. But it’s well.

When she is back from work daily, she start chatting with friends, she doesn’t talk to me, she deletes her chats on her phone immediately and when she is about going to bed, she offs her underwear drop it in the launder basket and go to bed. On a close watch, I found out that her underwear is freshly always wet anytime after the chats.

Her attitude towards sex has been nothing to write home about, this has also caused several quarrels at night, I practically have to beg her for sex and still no result. This terrible situation has caused me to masturbate on several occasions even before her in bed.

My patience over her sex state is expiring and I am at the brinks of searching for a mistress or more accommodating lady. She claims she does not find me attracted again. This is really affecting, I see myself getting close to another marriage.  I will not want to inform her parents before taken this step. I want to believe she married because I was able.  Now I have just been paid my outstanding money by government a week ago but she does not know.
What do I do please